Sunday, 22 November 2015

Help! I am a Repeat Offender



What is a repeat offender? A repeat offender is someone who fails at a particular sin most times, and has to ask God for forgiveness every time. Hebrews encourages us to lay aside every weight and the sin that so easily besets (overwhelms) us, looking unto Jesus…

Each of us as human beings has some weakness that we struggle with. As a matter of fact, there are persons who struggle with more than one sin. It might be an addiction like smoking, drinking, gossiping, lying, stealing, bad-talking the pastor, cursing, or something more common like feeling we are better than someone else because of our physical beauty, our salary range, our academic qualifications, or something as mundane as the car we drive or the house we live in.

Some folks might even argue that they are not struggling with anything, but for those of us who truly see ourselves in the light of God’s word, we would readily admit that we are stumbling at the door of certain sins.

What I find in myself though is that I want God to be patient with my persistent flaws, the most damning of which is incessant procrastination, especially when coming to my school assignments, but I am almost intolerant when it comes to a particular fault of which my spouse is very guilty. He is a repeat offender!

I must admit that I rail on him about the particular habit that is most certainly overwhelming him, and instead of being more mindful of my own repeat offender status with Jesus, I get really angry at him.

Recently I was late with a class assignment again---Jesus really has to help me---and the patient, easy-going lecturer forgave my indiscretion once more and kindly asked that I turn it in at another time. I skipped away so relieved. But what of my dear husband, and even others, who I believe should buck up and “stop de chupidness”?

Up comes the Holy Spirit, reminding me that I have “chupidness” that overpowers me as well. He brought to my mind that famous verse: Take the beam out of your own eye, before telling your brother about the speck in his eye. Ouch!
The lesson for me: I am a repeat offender, and so is everyone else, but we are all a work in progress.

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